Disclaimer: I am speaking from a jaded point of view. I understand I probably have a skewed version of reality right now. No offense is meant to any of my friends.
With that said, I had an disappointing weekend a couple of weeks ago that brought to mind one of Jesus’ parables from Luke 14
After a crazy week, I got off work Friday afternoon only to realize I had no real plans made for the weekend. Not wanting to feel completely lame and pathetic, I started calling (ok – txting) my boyrfriend, and close friends. I was making dinner and wanted to share. Everyone already had plans and were not interested or able to hang out. 10 apologetic refusals later, frustrated and lonely this bible passage jumped to mind:
16 Then Jesus said to the leader of the proud religious law-keepers, “There was a man who was giving a big supper. He asked many people to come to eat. 17 When it was about time to eat, he sent one of the servants he owned to tell those he had asked, saying, ‘Come, everything is ready now.’ 18 They all gave different reasons why they could not come. The first said, ‘I have bought some land and I must go and see it. Do not expect me to come.’ 19 Another one said, ‘I have bought ten cows to use for working in my fields. I must go and try them out. Do not expect me to come.’ 20 And another one said, ‘I have just been married and I cannot come.’
21 “The servant went back to his owner and told him these things. Then his owner became angry. He said to his servant, ‘Hurry into the streets and narrow roads of the city and bring poor people here. Bring those whose bodies are diseased. Bring those who cannot walk and those who are blind.’ 22 The servant came back and said, ‘Sir, what you told me to do has been done. But there are still some empty places.’ 23 Then the owner said to his servant, ‘Go out along the roads leading away from the city and into the fields. Tell them they must come. Do this so my house will be filled. 24 I tell you, not one of those I had asked will eat of my supper.’”
Intrigued, I then called up a couple people I would not have originally thought of. Not surprisingly, they were available and more than willing to spend a happy relaxing dinner with Emily and I. It actually ended up being a pretty decent evening for all involved.
Just more proof that my God can relate to my feelings of loneliness and feeling pathetic and not a priority to friends… he’s been there.
